Andrea gets up at 5 a.m. every morning to help her father get ready for his day before she heads to work. Her sleep is often interrupted at night, as her father has been known to wander and sometimes fall. He is six feet tall and weighs more than 180 pounds. Lifting him is a challenge for Andrea and her mother, who is 82 years old and of slight build. Her father, who has Alzheimer’s and cancer, is on a waiting list for a long-term care bed. After finishing a full day at work, Andrea goes home to continue caring for her father, who has spent the day at a day-program or at home with his wife. They have access to some home care, but it is costly, and the time is limited.

Andrea is not alone in her experience as a caregiver. Medical innovation and discovery have resulted in longer lifespans. As a result, families are taking on the role of caregivers. More than eight million Canadians care for a loved one at home who has a debilitating physical or cognitive condition. Of these caregivers, 6.1 million are employed, balancing their caregiving responsibilities with work and personal life, often including the care of children as well. It has been called the sandwich generation, or the panini generation, because of the immense pressure placed on people.

Canada has experienced a huge demographic shift. In Ontario alone, more than 36,000 people are waiting to move into long-term care homes. Unless more spaces are created, this number will continue to rise as baby boomers age. It is estimated that by 2035, there will be a need for 199,000 more beds across Canada.

There are more than 10,000 centenarians in Canada, and this number is expected to climb to 78,300—the size of Victoria—by 2061. By 2026, a quarter of the Canadian population will be over 65 years old. As the number of baby boomers increase, so will our needs. Extended lifetimes also mean an increase in the need for medical care as we age.

Family caregivers play a significant role in society as the invisible infrastructure of our health-care system. They fill many gaps and are often hidden health-care providers, sacrificing their own well-being, social lives and financial means to ensure their loved ones’ needs are met. Some take a leave of absence from work, turn down job opportunities or leave their employment to care for their loved ones. Every year, there are 18 million lost workdays, and $1.3 billion dollars in lost productivity. Some two-income families manage on one income so that one person can stay home as a caregiver. Their actions, whether by choice or necessity, are motivated by love and honour for their family member.

But who cares for the caregivers? This is an important role for the church to fill. Caregivers shouldn’t be on this journey alone. They need a support system around them to help them cope. They need respite from caregiving, reassurance, a listening ear, understanding, kindness, practical assistance and our prayers. The church can do that. We can care for the caregivers.

The Bible says much about caring for others. In the parable of the Good Samaritan found in Luke 10, we are reminded of the importance of being a good neighbour, especially to those who have fallen on tough times and need support. When Jesus asked, “ ‘Which of these three (the priest, the Levite or the Samaritan) do you think was a neighbour to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?’ The expert in the law replied, ‘The one who had mercy on him.’ Jesus told him, ‘Go and do likewise’ ” (Luke 10:36-37). The words of Jesus are important for us to hear today—“Go and do likewise.”

We seldom know all that is going on in someone’s life. As we interact with people at work, church or in our neighbourhoods, we see only a fraction of their story. They may be carrying an extra-heavy load. Let’s be good neighbours, people who listen and extend mercy and grace. It has been said, “It takes a village to raise a child.” This concept can be extended to other stages of life as well. It takes a village to care for each other throughout a lifetime.

Major Glenda Davis is the social services secretary for the Canada and Bermuda Territory.

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On Sunday, June 14, 2020, Joyce Reid said:

Hi believe caregivers for elders are much needed,& over load ,also those who work & come home to ther daily &much needed support for family etc are very busy but some who have loveones Parents maybe one needs more care,,many do take on the care of mom ,,or dad at this time,,,,,,,,I know i have experiene both,,,,,some living near spend much time making sure they are well cared for & i know being with both parents in times of illness ,,hospitalization finds the need to be present,,,depending on situation,,,,,,at home ,in many i have known through years,,,The daughters sons ,those,familywho wanted thier parents to stay in family surrounds of course ,,the cost do cause much difficulties,,,,, But so many of ther populations are seniors at this time,,,,would like to see the option for seniors there families who would chose to keep thier loveones in there regular surroundings or with a famaliy member or members to have this ability to do so,,,& have careworkers wererth 1 or2 as needed & a family member who is prime caregiver or family members be reconized for there care & the rate of pay be within the best possible amount,,,,,,,They both deserve so much recinition for the much precuis qualites & the seniors surely for the most are happy & get to live out their life in familar home or family home Has both would so choose Thank you God Bless, Joyce Reid


On Friday, June 12, 2020, Lynne McDormand said:

Caregivers of elders are indeed overloaded in many cases. One thing to remember is that there are also single parents who are caring for multiple and/or special needs children who also need assistance. Also sometimes elders are in the position of caring for grandchildren when the parent/s are unable to do so. In each case, the caregiver may need supports which hopefully the church can help fill.


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